Most relationships begin with that elated feeling, we think WOW, I finally met my soul mate or “This is the person I can really spend the rest of my life with”. They possess all those valued qualities that we desire, “kind”, “caring”, “smart”, “attentive”, “fun”, “active”, “not active”, “honest, trusting and giving. But isn’t that what we show and see when we initially meet someone and want it to grow into something more? Because we know that all our good stuff is what will attract and maintain a relationship.